It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. I'm the overly busy person. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. If I knew any better going into this relationship I would have stopped.
He went out and purchased a promise ring, but was holding off on giving it to me. You will join the church. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. So it is going to be over anyway. I have seen love prevail over beliefs. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States.
I just found your blog. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. I almost left the marriage,3xs. I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. I'd gladly give it all up to have him and feel wanted. Do you masturbate, ever. I am becoming more lonely now than before. I fear the idea of growing to resent him.
Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together.